New Friends

One of the difficulties of entering a new era of your life leaving behind a comfortable previous one is making new friends.

My working life was structured around the job and the people who worked with me, my clients and other associated relationships. I had a persona that was geared towards relating to younger work colleagues. After all, could I mention to them a past love for Cliff Richard and his music. Heaven forbid my reputation take a nose dive in the "cool department". So, definitely I kept many of my likes and dislikes under wraps.

In my retired life, I find I am making acquaintenances in all areas of my life. A chat at the local coffee shop can branch out into a warm conversation with one of the regular coffee afficionados on the state of the weather, community affairs or the local hairdresser. I find after my gym workout it is nice to walk to the car with one or two of my fellow fitness for life buddies. We chat about the latest books we have read, our kids, our travels - oh, many interesting facets of our lives. Mind you, all these people are near my own age so it is lovely to find so many things in common.

Yes, I am actually approaching the idea I might really like this retired life. If only my conscience does not intervene, telling me I should be gainfully employed in some meaningful work. For now, I tell it to be quiet and enjoy the experience.